Here are the Xaw3D definitions that reside within my .Xdefaults file.
It took me a while to make everything look like the true Motif feel, so
put it into your .Xdefaults file and enjoy this cool xterm!

! Good Xaw3d Defaults
*Form.background:			#c0c0c0
*TransientShell*Dialog.background:	#c0c0c0
*Command.background:		#c0c0c0
*Menubutton.background:		#c0c0c0
*ScrollbarBackground:		#c0c0c0
*Scrollbar*background:		#c0c0c0
*Scrollbar*width:		15
*Scrollbar*height:		15
*Scrollbar*shadowWidth:		2
*Scrollbar*cursorName:		top_left_arrow
*Scrollbar*pushThumb:		false
*shapeStyle:			Rectangle
*beNiceToColormap:		False
*shadowWidth:			2
*SmeBSB*shadowWidth:		2
*highlightThickness:		0
*topShadowContrast:		20
*bottomShadowContrast:		55

